The time after losing a loved one can be unimaginably difficult for you and your family. Stressful is an understatement. Everyone processes this loss differently, so it is not hard to see why many families may argue or lash out, especially as they go through the probate process.
There may be no absolute way to prevent conflict from arising in this often extremely emotional time. However, it can help to be aware of some of the reasons behind these disputes, so you can address them properly.
2 common catalysts of conflict
During probate, it is not uncommon for conflict among family members to stem from:
- Procedural issues: If one person is chosen as the executor or personal representative, the remaining family members might have many questions – and opinions – about how they handle probate. The risk of conflict could also increase if your loved one did not leave behind a will or other estate planning documents, leading to intestate succession in California.
- Emotional issues: Processing grief and feeling like you are at the end of your rope can create an environment ripe for conflict, even with loved ones you generally get along with. On the other hand, sibling rivalries or complicated family relationships can also be a root cause of disputes regarding how to handle your loved one’s estate.
As you know, every family is different and complex in their own way. Because of that, the conflict that you face may be intensely personal. It also can stem from a combination of the issues listed above.
Regardless of the reason behind the conflict, it can be a lot to handle while you work to protect and adhere to your loved one’s wishes. Working with an experienced attorney can help you manage conflict effectively and understand the probate process.